Been there done that.
The best sex is baby making sex! Boy oh boy. You gotta stretch it out, work it up, so there’s lots of fast moving stuff coming from various directions. And keeping the process up a few times a day over a few months. Take time off work! Spend the day!
Back in the good ole days this wasn’t a problem. Put out or get tied to a stake in the barn and get the crap beat out of you.
The good old days are today.